How to stop people from “taking your wealth”
Often people ask me this -Tonja, how do you stop someone from taking advantage of you together with taking your precious wealth?
My answer isn’t often met with great enthusiasm because I think that NOBODY will take what rightfully is assigned to you. I'm a firm believer that what's created for you is yours and also you need not “fight” to safeguard it.
I have faith that should you surrender towards the process, circumstances may appear that you simply wish didn’t but you are there to save you time.
The thing is believing that pain can be for your benefit, that is certainly where trust is vital. When you trust the Universe to provide what exactly is designed for you, you trust that it is for the best however it feels from the moment.
The minute may simply be designed for you to grow, to learn, to know, to organize or some other number of reasons.
In my book Twist & Trust (by Tonja Demoff), I discuss this comprehensive.
Surrender doesn’t mean settle back and loosen up, it indicates to allow the process to unfold, do that which you feel is the right thing without allowing your ego mind to look at over. Go inside your heart and your soul and seek the right action. Right Action is the action that will serve the harder good, build a situation for that highest and best solution for all. Then let the Universe to look at over, to put in motion what exactly is being.
An example from playing is:
I became associated with legislation suit that ended very badly personally and truth be told no better for the plaintiff. Each of us was economically harmed in many ways nor has everything to show for that many years of battle. I approached the plaintiff and extended my had to take the experience and utilize it inside a positive way to help others understand how such a thing might happen from to folks who were once friends, business partners and investors together.
Anyone declined the offer.
It did require her to be on video and answer some questions , be open, genuine and share her frustrations, anger etc… within a format that could give others information that will enable them to avoid that which you had experienced.
Instead she likes to paint me within an extreme and outrageous negative light across social networking. Her jealousy, bitterness, anger and hatred is one thing that's if you ask me. How I select to manage it can be what shapes my experiences and just what I gain knowledge from the situation is what shapes my character. That isn’t to express which it hasn’t hurt me, angered me, frustrated me etc… because it has. The point is that it has created us a stronger person, a person more character, allowed me to be more vulnerable given it showed me humility in numerous “offshoots” of the situation if you will. I am a lot more than I used to be if it started and I’ll be more than I used to be when it ends- what I learned is always that I was always “more than I thought”… I simply needed to grow into it.
NOBODY will take what is assigned to you… their attempt is the blessing!